This will be the final post recounting my journey from
believing pastor to where I am now (secular, humanist, agnostic-yet-mindful of
the mystery of life and existence, etc.). So here goes…
During the early months of 2015 I started pulling together a
number of posts and reflections I had written, either for myself, my ALC colleagues,
or for The Clergy Project forum. These would eventually constitute a pack of materials,
addressed to the LCA leadership, outlining how my beliefs and worldview had
changed over the last few years – summarized in a few pages but running in
total length to over 60 pages. Having done this, I securely filed it and got on
with the duties of seminary lecturer, dean of chapel, church theologian, etc.
But all the time I knew my little pack of surprises was sitting there for a
purpose, ticking away like a time bomb. After all, this is what I wrote to those
who would eventually read it:
“Over the last few years, I have tried to visualize various ways that I
could authentically hold my views while continuing in my current, or similar,
employment. These are some of the options that offer themselves, and they all
present difficulties of one kind or another.
- Grin and
bear it – just suppress my personal opinions and play the game
- Continue
to hold the public line, but have a regular outlet to share with like-minded
people
- Nudge the
church in a progressive direction which, while coming nowhere close to my own
views, would at least initiate some conversations
- Be open
about my personal views, but promise to teach and work within the doctrinal
parameters of the church
- Seek some
other work within the institution of the church
- Seek
employment in a more liberal church
I’ve considered all of these options, and for a while I really did
imagine I could function as a closet heretic within the LCA. However, I’ve recently
come to feel that I should probably bow out from ordained ministry altogether.”
By May of 2015 I came to the realization that for all my efforts, I was no more reconciled to my calling than before, and knew that nothing was going to change now. The prospect of
a double existence was as unpalatable as it had ever been. And so it was, that in
one of the more reckless decisions of my life, I threw caution to the wind and posted
the pack to the national and local bishop.
When we eventually met on June 2, things moved very quickly.
While I had personally (and probably naively) hoped for a lengthier period to transition
out of ministry, this was not considered feasible. The upshot was that I had no
choice but to resign from the ordained ministry within the next two days, which
I did the very next day. After that I had till the end of the month to wrap up
my seminary duties…and that would be that. Needless to say, the next days and
weeks were traumatic, both for myself and my family, and I’m not going to
rehash that here. I don’t even like thinking about it. However, I can say that
the ALC leadership and community offered wonderful support during this difficult
time, and for that I remain deeply grateful.
But despite the grief (self-imposed, but real all the same),
what would occupy me over the coming months would be the practicalities of
surviving now that unemployment loomed ahead. Since this blog is really about
charting my changing beliefs and worldviews, I won’t give a tedious narrative
of all that happened next. The following sums up some of the main challenges,
decisions, achievements and milestones since leaving the ministry, some of
which continue up to the present:
* Communicate and try and explain my decision to unsuspecting
(and bewildered) family members
* Begin this blog, which I did on July 30, 2015, as
a way of communicating with interested church members, and anyone else for that
matter.
* Start looking for alternative accommodation, as
we were currently in an ALC owned house. As it turned out, we kept renting there
till the end of the year, after which we moved into another unoccupied manse
very nearby. Most fortunate!
* Decide whether to continue my doctoral studies
or not. The decision was to place the PhD on hold for a year. This gave me an
opportunity to reshape the thesis direction. But as new employment and
professional prospects emerged in late 2016 it became apparent that this was no
longer viable. I am now in the process of withdrawing from the program. A
little sad, but that’s life. (But don’t worry, Ricoeur and I, we’re still
friends you know.)
But the most urgent task was to find new employment. Without
income, nothing much else was going to happen. Except for bad things, of
course.
Thankfully, I was in time to (successfully) apply
for a research contract through ALITE (Australian Lutheran Institute of
Theology and Ethics), an arm of my previous employer, Australian Lutheran College.
Some LCA readers will know about this, and may even have participated in it. In
short, it involved completing a research project (surveys, focus groups,
literature reviews) providing a current snapshot of the LCA clergy – their
wellbeing, the nature of their work and ministry, their training and
professional needs. This entailed extensive consultation across the church and
resulted in a series of reports with recommendations for LCA leadership. Most
unusual given my recent exit – but all in all a fulfilling and valuable
experience, providing part time employment for a good part of a year. http://www.alc.edu.au/alite/research-activities/
During this time, I was also offered a small
amount work with Adelaide College of Divinity, writing a VET unit (Cert IV in
Christian Life and Ministry) and marking papers for a Biblical Hermeneutics
course. The latter was a satisfying academic experience.
But when these income streams eventually dried up the time
came to seriously engage with the job market out there in the ‘world’. This was
something I had never needed to do, being employed by the church since my early
20s. Things were not helped by South Australia having the highest
unemployment and underemployment levels in the nation.
Nor were things helped by suffering a heart attack, which not
only meant several weeks’ recovery, but quite reduced energy levels due to the
medication I was now popping every morning and evening. This is a factor I’m
only just getting on top of 6 months on. Thankfully, I didn’t go down the
bypass surgery route, with 3 stents sufficing to keep my coronary arteries open
instead.
After putting in scores of job applications, I felt I had no
choice but accept an agency cleaning job to earn some extra cash. These were an
exhausting 10 weeks, and further drained me of energy that might be better put
into job hunting. Still, it was the closest thing to a free gym membership you
can get (those lost kilos are now creeping back, as they do!)
During this time, I also enrolled in a Diploma of
Counselling to improve my job prospects. This was not something I would have
anticipated doing some months earlier, but the process of job hunting and
writing applications very much served to sort out the kind of things I could
see myself doing – and not doing. As it turns out, I’m glad I made this investment
– the whole field of counselling can be envisaged as a secular version of
pastoral ministry. So far, I’m enjoying the study, as well attending the Australian
Counselling Association National Conference in Adelaide recently.
BUT…the best news of all was to finally receive full-time work
with the recently renamed Department for Child Protection. So I have now entered
the public service, engaging on yet another significant learning journey. Furthermore,
I feel there is a good deal of cross-fertilization between this employment and the
counselling studies, not to mention the induction I’m currently undergoing.
So to sum it up, and to bring this personal journey to a
close, I do feel I’m in the best place I’ve been for quite some years, at least
since my doubts began gathering momentum around 2011. Of course, we never know
what challenges life will throw at us next, but at least for now I can say that
I’m no longer caught between an inauthentic religious role or financial impoverishment.
Whether I continue to engage in theology or religious reflection remains to be
seen. Perhaps it can be a hobby of sorts. It’s certainly not irrelevant to the
field of counselling. In any case, I hope to blog some more about how I see the
nature and role of religious/Christian faith, as time permits.
I hope you’ve found this an interesting read. And if perchance
your situation resembles mine in any way, that you’ve found it helpful.
